Wednesday, 7 May 2014

MUSIC: Estelle- Make Her Say (Beat It Up)





"Everyone is still imperfectly perfect." British Singer Estelle shows she has guts with her bold new video for her track 'Make Her Say (Beat It Up)'. The visual is basically real couples having a little sexy time, but the interesting thing is that the couples aren't drenched in Hollywood sheen; they are just average folks. And there are no camera tricks to smooth out any lumps, bumps, or blemishes either.



The video might be a slightly awkward watch for some, because the couples are real and it feels like you're intruding on their private times. But I don't think the point of the video is necessarily to make you feel comfortable, or uncomfortable. The point is to show realness, to celebrate realness as plainly as possible. That's what's cool about this video because in today's world, it's a pretty bold thing for anyone to even go filter-less on Instagram, let alone for a singer to go filter-less on film. This video shows balls and a truly IDGAF attitude; Kudos Estelle for showing people in all shapes and all shades and for truly keeping it trill.

Check out 'Make Her Say (Beat It Up) below.

#LoveTheSkinYoureIn
Love B x


Monday, 14 April 2014

MUSIC: SZA - Z

Big hair, baggy Tee, and Chuck T’s are three things associated with New Jersey singer SZA... Cool vocals, dope lyricism and unique production happen to be another three. As one of Top Dawg Entertainment’s latest signees, she sits on their roster alongside the likes of Kendrick Lamar, Jay Rock and Schoolboy Q. Since signing to the label, SZA has lent her vocals to a number of tracks by other artists, including Kris Kasanova’s “Tomorrow”, and Isaiah Rashad’s “Ronnie Drake”. In autumn 2013 she released the songs “Julia” and “Teen Spirit”, which were her first solo offerings under the TDE moniker.




Needless to say that her latest album, Z has been highly anticipated by both fans, and critics who were eager to hear more from Top Dawg’s newest recruit. Z is actually SZA’s third album, after her 2012 debut EP, See.SZA.Run, and 2013’s S. It follows S as the second installment of a trilogy of albums that together will spell out her name. Z is a satisfying pick ‘n’ mix of 80s synth pop, 70s cool and, spacey futuristic noises. The 10-track album features appearances from Chance The Rapper, Isaiah Rashad and Kendrick Lamar. And the production credits include DJ Dahi, (Drake, Casey Veggies) Emile Haynie, (Eminem, Kanye West, Lana Del Rey) and Toro y Moi. The beautiful thing about Z is that somehow, SZA manages to combine and layer so many artistic elements without it coming off as confused or over-processed.




Conceptually, Z picks up where S left off, in the sense that it covers the next step of SZA’s coming-of-age experiences. But although the two albums deal with a lot of the same themes and issues, like love, aspirations, and identity, there is a definite shift in the overall tone. Musically, there’s less of the spangley, base-heavy, Glitter-trap sound that prevails on S. And lyrically, it’s without the whimsical, other worldly imagery too. Where S has more of an introspective dreamy feel to it, Z is more rooted in the here and now. The personality of this project is altogether more confident and self- assured. But SZA is not trying to play like she has all the answers - this album is not about cockiness or ego. It’s about accepting yourself, warts and all; it’s about accepting the fact that you don’t have all the answers; and realising that this is OK, because actually nobody has the answers and those who try to act like they do are only fooling themselves. Put plainly, Z is about experience, growth and keeping it trill in the realest sense.

“Clarity is a state of mind
Freedom ain’t real, who’s sold you that lie? [...]
Superficial Superwoman?
Ain’t you tired of that wind in your face?
Your skin tastes like brussells sprouts, I swear.”
- Lyrics from "Ur"                      


This is a confident, skilled body of work that is held together by superb creative integrity and innovation; Z is gorgeous to listen to- every song is its own unique treat. I love that SZA is quietly doing something different: and she's not being too noisy about it. She’s the rebel under your radar, and she is one artist who is truly dancing to her own tune, big hair, baggy t-shirt and all.

Have a listen to one of the album's stand out tracks, "Babylon" ft Kendrick Lamar. Also, check SZA's DECODED interview for Jay Z's digital magazine, Life + Times below.

Enjoy,

Love B x





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Monday, 24 March 2014

(Nearly) 12 Months No Relaxer... What Now?






I have been relaxing my hair since I was 12 years old. I had always loved creating new styles with my natural hair. I'd convince my mum to plait weird and wonderful cornrow designs or to just let me leave my afro out- free to square up to the elements, the best way it knew how.  For me the thrill and fun of my hair has always been in it's versatility. So at age 12, after my mother's relaxer embargo was lifted,  I got it done. And I loved my new hair, I was obsessed with it. Over the years I learned how to care for it, to love it properly, and for the most part it loved me back.  As I grew up I started experimenting with colour, and cuts too. OK, i'll admit, I have had a few disasters but they were calculated risks, which I took in the name of creativity... and boredom.

Anyway, generally I have enjoyed such healthy relaxed hair that I never considered growing out my natural hair fully. This is why my current hair situation is such a revelation to me... It's been almost 12 months since my last re-touch and I can't really explain why. It's definitely not the result of a conscious decision to go natural; I didn't meticulously weigh-up the pros and cons, I didn't research; I didn't consult any blogs or vlogs,; and I didn't drastically change my hair care regime. I don't really know what happened; time passed and I just never made that re-touch hair appointment.  Nope, my natural hair just happened... naturally.

APRIL 2013: Just a few weeks after my last relaxer. I had cut my hair into a crop in November 2012 and had been trimming the back while growing it in the front for the passed few months. By April, although I loved my do, I could predict myself getting antsy as I was heading for that dreaded 'in-betweeny' stage. In the past, this feeling has often led to me doing something follicle-y drastic.





JUNE 2013: The dye job. I fancied Ombré-ing my hair, so I hot-footed it to the high st and got myself L'Oreal's finest 'mix it yourself' kit... I loved the look but this new change only satisfied my hair boredom for, oooh, all of about 3 weeks.




JULY 2013: Swish and flick. I re-discovered hair extension clips, I had purchased and made in 2012. The clips were another great way to switch up my look. I had used good quality hair so the extensions were still in tact I was able to clip-in and clip out at will. I washed and conditioned my hair as normal, while the hair extensions protected my hair from the summer sun. It was to be the start of a glorious love affair... click here to see my post: The Wonder of Hair Extension Clips.



NOVEMBER 2013: True romance. As Winter drew in, my hair grew and the little afro curls held the clips in place all the more perfectly. I was cheating on my relaxer but I didn't care, there was no end in sight for this love... or so I thought.



FEBRUARY 2014: New Year, new me. The holiday was over...  my hair had really grown out and I had grown sick of blow drying it straight to match the extension hair texture. So, in slightly dramatic, slow-mo style, I looked at my clip- in extensioned self in the mirror, and I began to carefully, deliberately remove the tracks from my head. As I stripped away, I knew the romance was over. I still loved my clip-ins but I was bored, and it was time to move on.

After my usual was and treatment I decided to pop my hair into Bantu knots. I left them over night and in the morning, when I unraveled the knots, I pinned up up my hair and used a tie which give it a retro 'pin-up girl' look. My Bantu curls varied from day-to-day depending on how tightly I wrapped them and how long I left them in. I loved the look!



MARCH 2014: Braid away.I decided to give the knots a rest for a while and have been sporting my own version of the Goddess braid. This hairstyle reminds me of a cross between my childhood hair and something from Game of Thrones! Anyway I'm really liking this style at the moment; it's easy, unique, and protective. I often wear it with statement earrings and a bold lippy to make the look pop...



Is it possible to be in love with two different hair-types at the same time? I'm crazy in love with my relaxed hair- both with and without clip-ins, but I've developed a serious crush on my curls. I wonder if I can really to devote myself to one style when I have such strong feelings for another... I have looked into treatments, which can apparently give me the best of both worlds, but i'm undecided about any of those as yet.

One thing I do know is I've had a lot of fun playing with my hair over the last year, it's been great to experiment, and explore what my hair can do and be, and how it can make me feel. I was reminded of just how much I love the creativity and versatility of afro hair in all it's adaptations. You don't have to be "#TeamNatural" or "#TeamWeave" or "#TeamRelaxed" (are there even such teams and relaxed and weave?) My point is you don't have to be anything but #TeamYou. Choice is the truly liberating thing about self-image. How you choose to wear your hair is just another wonderful form of self-expression, so do what you please. I'm almost 12 months relaxer-free... what now? I dunno, but I'm excited about what I might try next.

#YourHairYourWay ... Just love it well.

Love B x




Tuesday, 18 March 2014

Kinkx Jams: Kwabs- Pray For Love


'Pray For Love' is the new track by north London singer Kwabs. I just can't get enough of this artist, he is going to be a major player in the UK's alternative R&B sound. Have a listen to the track produced by Ben Drew a.k.a. Plan B. Enjoy x 

Sunday, 2 March 2014

Make IT Pop: Sky Blue Nails




My latest nail colour lust is Mavala's "Sky Blue".  Pastels are always the thing for Spring and nail colour is a great place to start to experiment with different shades.



Friday, 28 February 2014

Sound Advice From Maya Angelou...

Most of the time we know what we want, but we just need that kick up the backside to get on with it, and not give up. This Maya Angelou quote inspires me whenever I'm feeling hesitant or indecisive about something.



So, whatever your dreams are, go for it. There's no one more capable of achieving your dreams than you.

Love, Bx

Wednesday, 19 February 2014

BEAUTY: Kinkx Loves... Pastels


Spring is almost here! Time to break out the pastels. Pale colours can work on all skin tones, it's just a case of experimenting and seeing what works for you. So whether it's pale nails, milky lips, or candyfloss hair colour, be inspired and have a go...


Love B x

Wednesday, 29 January 2014

Sweat it Up, Not Out: Caring for Your Hair When You Workout



Whether you wear weaves, braids, relaxer, or keep it natural when working out a real concern for women with afro hair is sweat! How many times have you gone hard at it at the gym all the while thinking "My body's gonna be in check but my hair's gonna look a wreck", or perhaps not even bothered working out because the thought of sacrificing the 'do' was all too much. Well if you're fed up of having to choose between  hot bod or hot hair, here are some tips to help you prevent your crowning glory from becoming collateral damage when you workout.

First off, we need to know what we're dealing with, so just what the heck is sweat?

Sweat is a mixture of water, sodium chloride (salt), and potassium.  It is brought to the surface by water produced within your sweat glands. Your body produces two types of sweat: Eccrine and Apocrine. Apocrine is type of sweat that occurs on your scalp and anywhere else on your body where there plenty of follicles. It is a thicker type of sweat, made up of the above ingredients plus fatty acids, ammonia and urea. Surprise: Sweat doesn't actually smell; the nasty odour is created as a result of the substances in apocrine sweat mixing with bacteria on the skin. Nice.

How does sweat affect my scalp and hair?

Generally sweat is not so good for our hair and scalps. The salty build-up of apocrine sweat can block pores, cause hair dryness and breakage, contribute to odour, and if left for long periods it can even cause fungus- Eww.

So, what can we do? 

Well the easy answer is to wash your hair immediately after an intensive workout. This is not always going to be the most convenient thing to do. Plus if you workout regularly, excessive washing may lead to drying anyway.  Here are some tips on how to look after your hair when exercising and useful tips when washing.

When exercising:
·         Keep hair away from face, tied in a pony, bun, plaited into cornrows etc.
·         Use a scarf or sweat band to keep sweat away from the hairline. The Save Your Do Gym Wrap  is an excellent choice for this; It allows the heat out and keeps the sweat at bay!




  • Keep a towel handy, wipe sweat away during breaks

  • Switch up your weekly workout regime: mix intense cardio with some low impact training exercise. This way you can alternate and make time to wash hair on intense cardio days, but not low impact training days.
When washing:

  • Use a clarifying shampoo, with a balanced PH and sulphate free to prevent hair feeling stripped. Kera Care's 1st Lather shampoo, or Aubery Organics Swimmers Shampoo are great options.



  • Afterwards use a serum or leave in conditioner to restore moisture. Try Moroccan Oil a light oil great for relaxed hair, or Sunny Isle Black Castor oil a heavier oil great for natural afro hair; or Mahogany Naturals' Leave-in conditioner suitable for all hair types.






  • As part of your long-term/monthly hair care regime alternate between hot oil treatments, moisturising hair masks, and protein masks. If you have natural hair, you can opt for milder protein products, like Trésemme Split End Remedy range. If your hair is relaxed, you might want to for a stronger protein treatment  Aphogee's Two-Step Treatment.




If your hair is in a weave or in braids...

  • If you wear a weave or braids, and love to workout, it's best to stick to low impact stuff and intensify your workouts when you're due to take out your extensions.
  • Regularly change your weave/braids. It might seem an arduous/expensive thing to do, but if you want to care for your body and your hair properly, it's a must do!
  • To prevent a hazardous build up of sweat and toxins, You need to be able get at your own hair and scalp underneath your weave. Your hair will be crying out for some of the above mentioned TLC especially if you like to workout. If you're able to leave a 1/2 week gap in between re-attachment, that's even better.
  • Weaves left for months on end on a heavily worked out body could develop a nasty fungus- yes ladies your hair could go moldy under there, so keep it as fresh as possible.
  • Invest that time and that money and remember the healthier your hair, the better the weave can look. And if maintaining a weave becomes too much, checkout other options like wigs or clip-in extensions. I recently did a post about the wonderful versatility of clip-ins which you can checkout here.


Hope this helps you to sweat it up without sweatin' it out.
Love, B x

Sunday, 26 January 2014

Music- SZA Teen Spirit



Check out this brooding, angsty track by TDE's latest signing and one of my favourite music discoveries of 2013, SZA (pronounced, si-zza). Her music combines a variety genres and styles and is a little in the vein of  the alternative R&B sound that's coming up right now, with artists like Jhené Aiko, Solange Knowles and Sampha. SZA's lyrics are as abstract and vivid as her gorgeous voice. And she has the most beautiful heap of natural curls, win! Peep the video for Teen Spirit below.



Wednesday, 22 January 2014

Music: The Weave-lovers' Anthem?

Huh? An empowerment track for weave lovers everywhere?! Yup, you read right. If you ever wanted a great way to tell 'weave-cynics' to get off your back here it is: when they shout: "It's not your hair!" you come back with: "I bought it, so sort it!"- it works for rising London rapper, Lady Lykez on her infectious track 'Not Your Hair'.

I Love the message of this. And don't be fooled by the light, cartoon style delivery of this track, Lady Lykez gives us a playful, clever, and defiant reminder that no one can dictate your style to you. People are going to judge you no matter what, so it's better to be comfortable in your skin. 'Not Your Hair' is about having the courage and freedom to wear your hair, your way, no matter if it's natural, relaxed, dreds, weave, braids, whatever! Just do you, and do it right.

Check out Lady Lykez performing 'Not Your Hair' for Amazing Radio.




Thursday, 9 January 2014

The Wonder of Clip-In Hair Extensions



I'm dedicating this post the the majesty of hair extension clips. OK, they might seem like old news to those who keep a finger firmly on the hair and beauty pulse, but there's always cause to celebrate a great product whether it's' brand new, nearly new, or just plain old, so that's what I'm doing.

Extension clips are tiny metal hair saviors (in my humble opinion). They are a really fab and easy way to add extra volume and length to your hair, and are a great alternative to weaving or bonding, which is also great for those who, like me, suffer from 'weave-o-phobia' (not a fear of weaves on others, but a fear of not being able to access my scalp and any given time, kind of like scalp claustrophobia, if you will)- despite the fact I just made up the phrase, it's a real thing, seriously, fellow suffers get in touch. Anyway, extension clips are a gift from the beauty gods to all who want to be able to switch-up their hair without it being too permanent or too costly.

My love affair with extension clips began about 2 years ago. I had just cut my shoulder-length relaxed hair into a bob following a (self-inflicted) dye job that went horribly wrong. My hair was slowly repairing itself but it was still a little thin and I wanted to add some volume for a night on the town. Feeling creative and not knowing extension clips existed, I decided to make my own clip-in hair extensions using hair grips and some old Premium Plus hair I found hiding at the back of my wardrobe. Unable to cornrow my own hair, I parted my hair into sections and twisted in a few tracks, then attached the hair wefts using the grips. It actually worked, I loved the result and my hair looked great for the evening. Here's a pic of said night out, complete with make-shift clip-ins...

The picture is not great but I had added length right at the front so the long hair at the side of my hair is actually one of my make-shift clip-ins. I can't lie though, I was a little paranoid about just how secure the extensions were. I kept checking the dance floor for AWOL wefts all night. I mean we've all seen stray braids lying in parks and on street corners. I certainly didn't want to be a victim of a weft-gone-rogue, that would've really ruined night. It was then, I thought: "there must be a better way of doing this".

The next day I investigated (went on YouTube) and discovered the wonder of clip-in extensions. After this, I decided to get myself some clips, and some new hair and to be a little more ambitious by adding length as well as volume to more of my head. Here's the result of my first attempt...





I used black Gossip Weaving Clips, in large, and a £25 bag of 16 inch Premium Now hair, in colour 2. You can sleep with the clips in, but I took these ones out every night because I wasn't wearing them everyday, and it helped to preserve the quality of the extensions. Having used these for a few weeks I thought I'd try using some virgin hair from Beyond Hair. Their hair is great quality, and it washes and styles really well. I used 16 inch Brazilian straight/wavy hair to achieve this look...



I was able to dye this hair to more closely match my own hair colour and I've not looked back since. Because the virgin hair is so versatile, I was able to occasionally sleep with the clips in, wash it regularly, curl it, and straighten it, and  if I wanted to wear a ponytail or a bun, I just used less clip-in wefts. I was so in love that I decided to give my own hair a break from the relaxer for a few months. I would just wash and treat my hair, then apply the clips-ins afterward. This worked wonders and my hair grew back stronger than ever. After six months I was able to cut the remnants of my horrible dye out of my hair completely, and go for a cool long-crop instead....


So, clip-in extensions can also make a great alternative transitioning solution too. Anyway months passed and as my crop started to grow out, I began to get bored of the "inbetweeny" stage. So what did I do? Well, I dyed it again, but just a bit; I attempted to ombré the tips blonde, see...


I was happy with the outcome but this only kept me entertained for about a week, so I reached for my trusty clip-ins again. I decided to give my hair another relaxer break, and so far haven't re-touched my hair since April 2013. Here are some pics of how I've worn my clip-ins between then and now...





Your Turn!

The whole process is pretty simple but a little time consuming, however once the initial phase is done you're able to clip-in and clip-out as you please. Here are 3 easy steps for attaching clip-in extensions:

  1. Measure and cut hair wefts according to where you want to place the tracks on your head. 
  2. Thread needle and sew clip to hair weft by pushing the needle through the seam of the hair. Apply two or three clips depending on how long each particular hair track is.


  3. Once all extensions are attached to clips, start at the back of your head parting your own hair into horizontal sections and slide the clip-in onto the bottom side of the parting. Comb another horizontal section of your hair over the seam of the track to cover it, and then repeat this step over until you reach your crown. Comb your own hair down over your final weft and style as desired. 

Some useful tips:

  • The trickiest part is attaching the hair wefts to the clips. Most of the videos I watched said to use the holes on either side of the clip, but I found that the needle was actually too big to fit, so I looped the thread around around the backbone of the clip instead. I find this also holds the clip more steadily in place too. (see above pic)
  • Don't forget to buy a needle. Most clips are sold with thread included but you'll need either a fully curved or tip curved weaving needle to get going.
  • I use Gossip Weaving Clips. They are about £10 for 36 large clips.
  • Extension clips are made out of coated metal and come in black, brown and yellow. Pick the colour that best matches your hair colour at the root.


  • Clips come in different sizes I find the large ones best because they are stronger, easier to thread and kinder to my hair because the wider teeth lessen the snagging hazard.
  • Keep the clips healthy. Over time the metal clips will begin to lose their coating and may start to irritate your scalp. be sure to change your clips if this happens to protect your own hair and maintain a healthy scalp.
  • Avoid using clip-ins on freshly relaxed hair. After applying any kind of chemical treatment, you don't want to stress your hair out any further straight away. Instead wait for a little new growth to come through before attaching extension clips. You'll find that your hair will hold the attached wefts more securely too. 
  • Practice makes perfect! For your first attempts maybe use reasonable priced hair, then as your confidence grows, switch to better quality hair that you can use again and again and just replace the clips as and when.
  • Do use hair that closely matches your colour and texture for a sleeker, more convincing look.
  • Nobody needs to see behind the magic: Make sure you properly cover your crowning weft, there's nothing worse than exposed tracks, work in good light so you can be sure of the finished look.  
  • DID YOU KNOW you can boost your 'fro too? Mane Divas do great a line of pre-made afro hair textured, clip-ins.
Well that's it go forth into the world of clip-in extensions and experience the wonder for yourselves. Let me know how you get on... Love B x